It’s that time of year again when parents, grandparents, aunts, and uncles go out in search of new toys for their youngest relatives. I’ve written before about tips for choosing toys, always at this time of year it seems. (Top Toys for Toddlers and How To Choose Toys That Encourage Development Through Play). And here I go again.
This year, I’m focusing on toys that encourage symbolic and/or pretend play. Language and play develop along similar paths, so as children’s play becomes more complex, so does their language. The toys below lend themselves to children narrating what they are doing. For some little ones, this will be in complete sentences, while for others, they may just use single words or two-word phrases. Regardless of the complexity, it’s important that children be able to use language to comment about what they are doing, rather than just for labeling pictures and requesting desired items.
Parents and caregivers can support language development by reflecting back what the child says and expanding on it. For example, if your child is playing with a farm set, puts the horse in the barn, and says “Horsie night-night,” you could respond by saying “The horse is going night-night,” or “The horse is going to sleep.”
So here are a few toys that encourage symbolic and/or pretend play. None of them require batteries, which saves you money, saves you from listening to annoying toy sounds, and allows your child to use his or her imagination.
Fisher Price Little People Mini Farm – This one has no batteries. If you choose the Fun Sounds Farm, do yourself a favor and never put the batteries in. If you put the batteries in, your child may learn that a cow says oink or a sheep says moo because the toy does not know which animal figure your child is playing with as s/he puts it on a spot that activates the sound.
Tea Set – There are lots of tea sets out there with batteries, but this one doesn’t use any. It’s simple, which will encourage your child’s creativity. Pair this with some dolls or stuffed animals, and your child can host a tea party.
Doctor Kit – This is a great toy for acting out adult roles, as well as playing with others. Children can take turns being the doctor or the patient. Playing with the doctor’s tools can help desensitize children to them, so they are more comfortable in the doctor’s office.
Cooking Set – Children can play restaurant or house with this set of cookware and food. They don’t even need a play kitchen to make believe they’re cooking like mom or dad.
Baby Doll Set – Both feeding and clothing the baby are great for pretend play. Additionally, dressing and undressing the baby require the use of fine motor skills. All kids, not just girls, are likely to enjoy taking care of a pretend baby.
I have intentionally left out toolbox sets. While some children engage in pretend play with hammers and screwdrivers, many children only use them for banging. Since we are looking for higher level play than just banging, I recommend choosing a different play set.
I receive no financial benefit from promoting these toys. I just think they are great toys for young children. All of these toys can be found on Amazon, which is where the links will take you, but the same or similar toys can be found in any toy store. Happy shopping!